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Monday, December 13, 2010

An Unexpected Caller aka A***hole






Yes the story of my life.!!! I received a phone call not so long ago I expected it to be one of my family members. It was like 11:40 PM at night. I watching re-runs in National Geographic in my couch with my cell phone (like first time evaaa, I usually lose it all the time). Anyways but it was a wrong numba, I was like "AHHH Let them leave a message, I dont know who its is." Or so I thought. I actually knew who it is right after the they leave a message. It was "HIM" the A***hole. His sounding creepy voice ached around my spine when he stated the following,"Hey what's up baby girl, call me back. I'm not home rite now. But call me back as soon as you get this message. My number is ###-###. Later Babe."Gosh you would be surprised If I told you this huge infatuation in him.Of course your hearing me ranting about the A***hole right now. But let me explain and let you grasp and assess the situation a little differently. 




It all started when I was spending some time in summer vacation (oh yea lovely..summer vacation). At first I glanced at him I never thought much of him, until we started talking. He went unfrazzled by it all, talking about his passion in tennis and his eager devotion to meet one of the most recognizable tennis figures of all time. Of course I let him play the field (wink) I acted amused, (like isn't that what girls have to do, for guys to feel admired?) a macho thing no doubt. In my mind I thought he was the sweetest, most paying attention/devoted to me kinda feeling embrace type of person. Yea or so I thought. It didn't took long for him to ignore me, and back stab me in the back (of course I didn't belong to him, and he didn't belong to me). It was just an innocent platonic crush, that it took me 3 months to recover, I'm alright though ;) He was attentive to me I thought he was gonna take the next step. Three days after that he completely ignored me, didn't look at me, and he even didn't try to mention my name *JERK*. I thought I did something wrong, but it wasn't me it was his stupid moronic way of dissing me goodbye. 


Goodbyes are hard but when you look at the bright side of it all and recover everything starts shine to get better. I was like "OK coolio, you wanna play that game then I have nothing else than to move on". I started talking to his friend (no it wasnt payback time, but heck it felt good in the inside). He was years remotely bigger than me, I didnt like him, I mean I wasnt attracted physically or emotionally, otherwise lol. But he was a good listener and agile communicator, I intended no harm. We started talking getting acquainted to each other (like those bffs). I guess guys never learn. What do girls have to do to grab their attention? Go arm candy in order for the A***Hole to notice them? And so it had happened, he started looking at me, but I was there with having the time of my life and ignored him like he ignored me (No Duh). I'm like common "If your in for the chase then get the heck out of my face,"LOL. He tried the best way to approach me, trying to sit next to me, trying to make me notice him, even at the last minute wanting to talk to me, but it was TOO LATE!. After all he was undeserving of my appreciation of him, my devoted idea that there was gonna be two of us, but im not something you can pick out of the street and expect me to be happy. UH-UH BUDDY! aka A***Hole. These are my last goodbyes, my voyage to betterment begins. And as for that voice-mail, and recent phone call. I did not answer. I have a strong will, and no one will change that idea out of me. 


2 comments:

  1. You write so fluently like a writer. But you are 100% right guys like to think they have girl in their back pocket well depending how head over heels the girl is for him. Ignoring him would be the pest option for

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  2. @freemm4 Thank You for your Lovely comment!!!. As for him, hes a thing of the past, the problem was I was definitely swooning over him (big mistake). Now I consider the idea of thinking before I act, and not fall in love at first sight lol. :D We all deserve better, and not settle for less.

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